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Short answer: look for telehealth platforms that combine medical care with licensed mental‑health providers — or pair a telemedicine ED provider with an online therapist who specialises in sexual/performance anxiety.
Services to consider
- Hims & Hers — offers telemedicine for ED plus a separate mental‑health service (licensed therapists/psychiatrists). Good if you want one company to handle both meds and talk therapy.
- PlushCare — provides primary‑care clinicians who can treat ED and also offers on‑platform therapy and psychiatry (same login/records), so you can coordinate medication and anxiety treatment.
- Teladoc — large telehealth network with both medical and behavioral‑health visits; you can see a clinician for ED and a therapist/psychiatrist for performance anxiety through one service.
- Amwell — connects you to physicians and behavioral‑health clinicians (including therapists who treat sexual performance issues); useful if you want to see different specialists via one platform.
- BetterHelp (therapy only) — big network of licensed therapists, many list experience with sexual/relationship issues and performance anxiety. Pair this with an ED telemedicine provider if you need medication.
- Lasting (app) — focused programs for sexual health and relationship/sexual therapy (guided exercises and therapists available); good for structured, cognitive/behavioral strategies for performance anxiety.
How to choose/use them
- If you want medication + counseling in one place, prioritize Hims, PlushCare, Teladoc, or Amwell and ask upfront whether they’ll coordinate care for ED + anxiety.
- If you prefer a specialist sex therapist, pick a therapy platform (BetterHelp, Talkspace, or Lasting) and pair it with an ED telemedicine provider for prescriptions.
- Before booking, ask any clinician whether they have experience treating sexual/performance anxiety, what therapeutic approach they use (CBT, sensate focus, couples therapy), and whether they coordinate with prescribers.
If you tell me your state/insurance preference, I can narrow this to the best options available to you.