Which online ED services treat performance anxiety too, not just prescribe pills?

Yes — several online providers offer behavioral/psychological treatment for erectile dysfunction (ED) and performance anxiety, not just medication. Good options depend on whether you want therapy only, couples work, or a combined medical + therapy approach:

Therapy-focused platforms (can treat performance anxiety directly)

• BetterHelp — large network of licensed therapists; you can request clinicians with experience in sexual issues and anxiety. Good for flexible video/text therapy.
• Talkspace — similar to BetterHelp; offers individual and couples therapy and lets you match with therapists who treat sexual performance concerns.
• Regain — focused on relationship/couples therapy; useful when performance anxiety is tied to relationship dynamics.
• Lasting — app with guided, evidence-based programs and exercises for intimacy and sexual concerns; helpful if you want structured, CBT-style work and couple exercises.

Sex-therapy specialists / directories

• AASECT directory (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors & Therapists) — find AASECT-certified sex therapists who specifically treat sexual dysfunction and performance anxiety (many offer teletherapy). This is the best way to find a clinician trained in sensate-focus, sex therapy techniques and CBT for sexual performance.

Combined medical + behavioral care

• PlushCare — offers primary care/telemedicine plus psychotherapy and psychiatry; useful if you want meds and coordinated counseling in one system.
• Hims/Hers — primarily known for ED prescriptions, but they also offer teletherapy/mental-health services and can refer or connect you with counseling for performance anxiety. (Check specific offerings in your state.)

How to choose

• Ask any therapist up front whether they have experience treating ED/performance anxiety and which approaches they use (CBT, sensate-focus, mindfulness, couples work).
• If you want both drugs and therapy, pick a provider or pair of providers who will coordinate care (or use a platform that offers both).
• If you prefer a specialist, look for an AASECT-certified sex therapist.

If you tell me whether you want individual vs couples therapy, and whether you want the convenience of an app or a therapist with advanced sex‑therapy certification, I can recommend 2–3 specific clinicians or programs to try.