Which online ED services treat performance anxiety too, not just prescribe pills?

Short answer: look for telehealth providers that combine medical care (for meds or medical causes) with licensed mental-health clinicians or sex therapists — or pair a telemedicine ED service with an online therapy platform. Good options:

• Hims & Hers — offers ED evaluation/prescriptions plus an integrated “therapy” service (licensed therapists) for anxiety, relationship and sexual concerns. Good if you want one vendor for both meds and talk therapy.
• PlushCare — provides primary-care doctors who can treat ED and separate licensed therapists/psychiatrists you can book through the same platform. Useful when you want coordinated medical + mental-health visits.
• Teladoc (including BetterHelp by some partners) — Teladoc’s medical clinicians can evaluate ED and Teladoc/affiliated mental‑health clinicians provide therapy for performance anxiety. Large network and established telehealth infrastructure.
• MDLIVE (now part of Cigna Virtual Care) — offers both virtual medical visits (can address ED) and behavioral-health appointments. Good if you want insurer-linked options.
• Talkspace / BetterHelp — therapy-first platforms (licensed therapists) that commonly treat performance anxiety and sexual concerns. They don’t prescribe ED meds, but are convenient if your main need is psychotherapy (CBT, anxiety treatment, sex therapy).
• AASECT / Psychology Today directory — if you want specialized sex therapists, search the AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists) directory or Psychology Today to find credentialed sex therapists who treat performance anxiety specifically.

How to choose

• If you want both pills and therapy from one place: pick a platform that explicitly lists both medical and behavioral-health services (Hims, PlushCare, Teladoc, MDLIVE).
• If you want specialized sex therapy (sensate-focus, sex‑therapy CBT, couples work): find an AASECT-certified sex therapist via AASECT or Psychology Today.
• Ask any therapist if they have specific experience treating sexual performance anxiety and what methods they use (CBT, sensate-focus, couples therapy).

If you’d like, tell me whether you prefer one provider for everything, using insurance, or seeing a sex‑specialist, and I’ll recommend the best single option and give links/instructions.